ARIA BY RICHARD RODRIGUEZ
REFLECTION
In Aria, Richard
Rodriguez argues that in today’s society people are forced to lose a part of
who they are, because they need to learn a different language in school districts.
In this article Rodriguez mentions that
when he was going to school he did not know much English because this was not
the language that he spoke at home with his family. Teachers eventually caught
on and met with his parents basically forcing them to only speak English with
him. To me this shows that this was the beginning of Rodriguez losing a part of
who he was because if a teacher shows up to someone’s house, forcing them to
all of the sudden switch languages spoken in a household just so that it is
more convenient for them (in my opinion) that is taking away a part of individualism
and a part of someone’s culture. Personally I think that this family should
have only spoken a somewhat English in the household as well as Spanish or use
a kind of “Code Switching” as Collier would say and use both in sentences
because what language someone speaks defines who they are and defines their
pride. I think that if the family would have done this then Richards father
would have been more social with the family and tried harder with his family
like with everyone else. “His children became so accustomed to his silence…But
my father was not shy, I realized, when I’d watch him speaking Spanish with
relatives” (Rodriguez). I feel like
maybe they could have had more fun with learning a new language as well as
adding their own pride in the language at the same time if they spoke with both
languages.
Although
I have never known of a teacher to show up to my friend’s house to make them
change their language from Spanish to English, I do know someone who was one of
my good friends that over time lost who they were because they basically were
forced to only speak English at school because the teachers did not try to help
him. This friend changed in so many ways. When he first came he cared for
everyone and did not care if he was being too nice or what anyone thought about
him. Overtime, he began to learn the language and from there on began to
change. He became mean and so much different than before or you could say he
became Americanized. He would make fun of people, he started to hang around the
wrong crowd and make bad choices. He also did not have the relationship with
his dad that he once had just like Rodriguez, throwing parties and not even
talking when they were in the same room. To me this proves that by going to a
school and having to change the language you originally spoke, makes people
lose a part of them. Personally I think that we as a whole country need to fix
this and let people speak the language that will help them have better future
and not tear their family apart which I now see has happened more than once.